Monday, September 28, 2026

Too Many Cooks | Learning to Share Roles with Elmo, Abby, and Rosita | Emotional Well-being


Elmo and his friends learn that working together—and sharing roles—helps playtime go more smoothly. 

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Fairfield, CA 94534-4019
(707) 863-3950

 

Friday, September 25, 2026

Understanding the Importance of Quality Child Care


Choosing child care is an important decision for families. Parents need to consider safety, reliability, cost, location, schedules, and the environment in which their children will spend time.

Quality child care also plays a role in children's development.

Children Learn Through Relationships
Young children learn through interactions with adults and other children. Positive relationships provide opportunities for children to practice communication, cooperation, emotional regulation, and social skills.

A nurturing environment can help children feel secure enough to explore and learn.

Play Is an Important Part of Learning
Play is not simply something children do when they are finished learning. Play itself can be a learning experience.

Building, pretending, drawing, singing, sorting, and exploring can help children develop cognitive, physical, language, and social skills.

Families Have Different Needs
There is no single child-care arrangement that works for every family.

Work schedules, transportation, children's ages, family finances, and individual circumstances can all influence what a family needs.

That is why access to information is important. Parents can make more informed decisions when they understand the available resources and options.

Child-Care Assistance Can Matter
The cost of child care can be a significant consideration for families. Solano Family & Children’s Services provides information about subsidized child care and maintains resources related to licensed child-care providers.

The organization also supports child-care providers through training, professional development, resources, and related programs.

Finding appropriate child care involves many factors, but families do not have to approach the process without information. Understanding child development, asking questions, and learning about available community resources can help parents make thoughtful decisions for their children.

LOCATION
421 Executive Court North
Fairfield, CA 94534-4019
(707) 863-3950

Tuesday, September 22, 2026

Why Early Childhood Development Matters


The early years of a child's life are filled with rapid growth and learning. Children are developing language, movement, social skills, emotional awareness, and problem-solving abilities as they interact with the world around them.

Understanding early childhood development can help parents and caregivers recognize the many ways children learn every day.

Development Happens in Many Areas
Children do not develop in only one category. Physical development involves movement and coordination. Language development includes communication and understanding. Social-emotional development involves relationships, emotions, and interactions with others.

Cognitive development includes learning, remembering, exploring, and solving problems.

These areas are connected. A child playing with another child, for example, may be practicing communication, social skills, motor skills, and problem-solving at the same time.

Everyday Activities Can Be Learning Opportunities
Children learn through ordinary experiences. Reading together, talking about what is happening, playing games, singing songs, drawing, building, and helping with simple tasks can all provide opportunities for learning.

Parents do not need to turn every moment into a formal lesson.

Development Is Individual
Children do not all reach developmental milestones at exactly the same time. There is a range of normal development, and individual circumstances can influence a child's progress.

Developmental screenings can provide useful information about how a child is progressing and whether additional discussion or support may be appropriate.

Families Benefit From Information and Resources
Parents and caregivers often have questions about child development, child care, parenting, and available community resources.

Solano Family & Children’s Services provides resources for parents and guardians, including free developmental screenings, parenting support, Help Me Grow Solano, and child-care resource and referral services.

Early childhood is a time of tremendous opportunity. Providing children with responsive relationships, safe environments, and opportunities to explore and learn helps create a strong foundation for continued development.

LOCATION
421 Executive Court North
Fairfield, CA 94534-4019
(707) 863-3950

Saturday, September 19, 2026

Zoe’s Get Well Basket | Emotional Well-being


When Zoe gets sick, Elmo, Abby, Wes, and Louie decide to make her a Get Well Basket.

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421 Executive Court North
Fairfield, CA 94534-4019
(707) 863-3950

 

Wednesday, September 16, 2026

Why Developmental Milestones Matter


Children develop at different rates, and parents naturally have questions about whether their child is progressing as expected.

Developmental milestones provide one way to understand early childhood development.

Milestones describe skills that many children can demonstrate by certain ages in areas such as communication, movement, learning and social interaction.

Milestones Are Not a Race
Children do not all develop in exactly the same way or on exactly the same schedule.

Milestone information should therefore be used as a tool for awareness, not as a competition between children.

Parents and caregivers can watch for patterns and learn what skills are generally expected during different stages.

Why Early Awareness Matters
If a parent has concerns about a child's development, noticing those concerns early gives the family an opportunity to ask questions and seek appropriate information.

Solano Family & Children's Services offers free developmental screenings and also connects families with resources through Help Me Grow Solano. 

Everyday Activities Support Learning
Development does not only happen during formal educational activities.

Talking with a child, reading together, singing, playing, looking at pictures, practicing simple tasks and exploring the environment can all create opportunities for learning.

Young children learn through relationships and everyday experiences.

Parents Do Not Have to Know Everything
Parenting comes with an enormous amount of information.

It is normal to have questions.

Resources such as developmental screenings, parenting support, lending libraries and family engagement opportunities can give parents additional tools as they navigate the early years. Solano Family & Children's Services lists these resources among its services for parents and caregivers. 

The important thing is not to have every answer immediately.

It is to know where to find reliable information when a question comes up.

LOCATION
421 Executive Court North
Fairfield, CA 94534-4019
(707) 863-3950

Monday, September 14, 2026

Understanding the Difference Between Child Care and Child Care Resources


Finding child care can be a major task for a family. There are schedules to consider, ages and needs to account for, costs to understand and providers to research.

That is why it can help to understand the difference between providing child care and helping families navigate child care resources.

Solano Family & Children's Services provides child-care resources and referrals for families in Solano County. Its services include help paying for child care, referrals to licensed child-care providers, developmental screenings, parenting support, a lending library and Help Me Grow Solano. 

Families Have Different Needs
There is no single child-care arrangement that works for every family.

Parents may need care during different hours, for different ages, or in settings that accommodate specific circumstances.

Solano Family & Children's Services offers a free list of licensed child-care providers and can personalize a search based on factors such as location, type of care, hours needed and children's ages. The organization explains that it provides referrals rather than making recommendations for individual providers. 

Financial Assistance Has Eligibility Requirements
For families looking for help paying for child care, eligibility is important.

Solano Family & Children's Services states that subsidized child-care programs may provide full or partial payment for eligible Solano County families. Eligibility and enrollment depend on program requirements, available funding and other factors. Applying does not automatically guarantee assistance. 

Resources Can Make the Search Easier
The child-care search can feel overwhelming because families are often making several decisions at once.

Having access to information about licensed providers, financial assistance, developmental resources and parenting support can help families better understand their options.

That is the role of child-care resource organizations: helping families navigate information and connect with appropriate resources.

For Solano County families, Solano Family & Children's Services is designed to be part of that resource connection.

LOCATION
421 Executive Court North
Fairfield, CA 94534-4019
(707) 863-3950

Friday, September 11, 2026

Why You’re Always Tired (Even After 8 Hours of Sleep)


You're sleeping 7–8 hours… but waking up tired, unmotivated, and low on energy.
In this video, I break down the real reasons you feel tired all the time, even when you get enough sleep — and how simple habits can boost your energy, focus, and productivity fast.
This isn’t medical advice.
Just practical, science-backed lifestyle fixes you can use to feel more awake, more focused, and more productive every day.

LOCATION
421 Executive Court North
Fairfield, CA 94534-4019
(707) 863-3950

 

Monday, September 7, 2026

Small Learning Moments Can Make a Big Difference


Children are learning all the time.

Learning doesn't only happen at school or in a classroom. It happens while a child helps prepare a meal, listens to a story, sorts laundry, builds with blocks, asks questions, explores outside, or talks with a parent about something they noticed.

These everyday moments can support important developmental skills.

Reading together, for example, introduces children to language and vocabulary while also encouraging imagination. Counting objects during everyday activities can make early math concepts more meaningful. Letting children help with simple tasks can encourage independence.

Perhaps most importantly, these activities create opportunities for adults and children to connect.

Parents don't need expensive toys or complicated lesson plans to encourage learning. A conversation during a walk can become a lesson about nature. Cooking together can become an opportunity to practice counting and measuring. A trip to the grocery store can involve colors, shapes, numbers, and new vocabulary.

Solano Family & Children's Services provides resources designed to support families, including developmental screenings, parenting support, Help Me Grow Solano, and a lending library with books and activity resources.

The important thing is to stay curious with your child.

Ask questions. Listen to their answers. Let them explore. Celebrate their efforts.

Those little moments may seem ordinary, but they are part of how children learn about themselves and the world around them.

LOCATION
421 Executive Court North
Fairfield, CA 94534-4019
(707) 863-3950

Friday, September 4, 2026

Finding the Right Child Care Is About More Than a Location


Choosing child care is a big decision.

For many families, the right program needs to balance schedule, location, cost, learning opportunities, safety, and the individual needs of the child. There is no single child-care arrangement that works perfectly for every family.

That is why having access to reliable information can make such a difference.

Families may want to consider questions such as:

What hours does the program offer?

What age groups does it serve?

What is the caregiver-to-child ratio?

What activities are offered throughout the day?

How does the provider communicate with parents?

What are the policies for meals, naps, illness, and emergencies?

Families should also think about their child's personality and needs. Some children may thrive in a smaller setting, while others enjoy a larger group environment.

Cost is another major consideration. Child care can represent a significant expense for families, which is why learning about available assistance programs can be an important part of the process.

Solano Family & Children's Services helps connect Solano County families with child-care resources, including information about licensed providers and programs that may help eligible families with child-care costs.

Finding child care can feel overwhelming, but families don't have to navigate every question alone.

The more information parents have, the better equipped they are to make a decision that fits their family's needs.

LOCATION
421 Executive Court North
Fairfield, CA 94534-4019
(707) 863-3950

Monday, August 31, 2026

What is depression? - Helen M. Farrell


Depression is the leading cause of disability in the world; in the United States, close to ten percent of adults struggle with the disease. But because it’s a mental illness, it can be a lot harder to understand than, say, high cholesterol. Helen M. Farrell examines the symptoms and treatments of depression, and gives some tips for how you might help a friend who is suffering.

Lesson by Helen M. Farrell, animation by Artrake Studio.

LOCATION
421 Executive Court North
Fairfield, CA 94534-4019
(707) 863-3950

 

Friday, August 28, 2026

Child Development: Getting Kids Ready for a New School Year


The start of a new school year brings fresh backpacks, new teachers, new routines—and sometimes a few big feelings.

For children, transitioning from summer to a structured school schedule can take some adjustment. That's why preparing for the school year is about more than buying school supplies.

A consistent bedtime and morning routine can help children know what to expect. Talking positively about school can also help build excitement and reduce anxiety about a new classroom or teacher.

It's also a good time to encourage age-appropriate independence. Simple tasks such as choosing clothes, packing a backpack, putting away belongings, or helping prepare a snack can help children develop confidence and responsibility.

And don't forget the emotional side of preparation. Ask children how they're feeling about the upcoming school year. Some kids may be excited to see friends, while others may be nervous about changes or new expectations.

Every child develops at their own pace. What matters is giving them opportunities to practice skills, build confidence, communicate their feelings, and feel supported.

At Solano Family, we understand that preparing children for school involves much more than academics. We focus on supporting children's development and helping families create positive experiences as children grow, learn, and become more independent.

A new school year is a new beginning—and that's something worth getting excited about!

LOCATION
421 Executive Court North
Fairfield, CA 94534-4019
(707) 863-3950

Tuesday, August 25, 2026

Back-to-School Ready: Helping Children Transition Into a New School Year


The start of a new school year can bring excitement, nervousness, new friendships, new teachers, and a completely different routine.

For children, transitions can be a big deal.

After a summer filled with later bedtimes, relaxed schedules, vacations, and extra playtime, returning to a structured school routine can take some adjustment.

Fortunately, preparation doesn't have to be stressful.

Start Talking About the New Routine

Children often do better with transitions when they know what to expect.

Talking about school before the first day can help make the upcoming change feel more familiar. Discuss bedtime, morning routines, school activities, transportation, and other parts of the day.

For younger children, simple conversations can go a long way.

Rebuild the Sleep Schedule

Summer schedules can be wonderfully flexible—but school mornings are not.

Gradually returning to a consistent bedtime and wake-up schedule before school begins can make the transition easier.

Adequate sleep is important for children's overall well-being, attention, mood, and ability to participate in daily activities.

Practice Independence

Depending on their age and developmental stage, children can begin taking responsibility for age-appropriate tasks.

That might include organizing a backpack, choosing clothes, putting away belongings, or remembering basic parts of the morning routine.

Small responsibilities can help children build confidence.

Keep Some Time for Play

A new school year doesn't mean children need every minute of the day scheduled.

Play remains an important part of childhood. Unstructured time gives children opportunities to explore, socialize, imagine, and simply relax.

A balanced routine includes responsibilities as well as time to be a kid.

Watch for Changes

Every child responds differently to transitions.

Some children can't wait for school to start. Others may become more anxious, withdrawn, frustrated, or emotional.

Parents and caregivers can help by listening, asking questions, and paying attention to changes in behavior.

Remember That Development Doesn't Follow a Calendar

Children develop at different rates. Milestones and abilities can vary from child to child.

If you have concerns about your child's development, behavior, communication, social skills, or readiness for school, talking with a qualified child-development professional can help you better understand your child's individual needs.

The goal isn't to compare one child to another.

It's to help each child build the skills and confidence they need to learn, grow, and thrive.

LOCATION
421 Executive Court North
Fairfield, CA 94534-4019
(707) 863-3950

Sunday, August 23, 2026

How miscommunication happens (and how to avoid it) - Katherine Hampsten

Explore why miscommunication occurs so frequently, and how you can minimize frustration while expressing yourself better.


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Have you ever talked with a friend about a problem, only to realize that he just doesn’t seem to grasp why the issue is so important to you? Have you ever presented an idea to a group, and it’s met with utter confusion? What’s going on here? Katherine Hampsten describes why miscommunication occurs so frequently, and how we can minimize frustration while expressing ourselves better. 

Lesson by Katherine Hampsten, animation by Andrew Foerster.

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421 Executive Court North
Fairfield, CA 94534-4019
(707) 863-3950

Thursday, August 20, 2026

Getting Kids Ready for School Is About More Than School Supplies


Backpacks? Check.

Shoes? Check.

New clothes? Hopefully.

But getting children ready for a new school year involves much more than buying supplies.

Children often benefit from having predictable routines, especially when they're transitioning from a relaxed summer schedule back into a structured school day.

A few weeks before school starts, families can begin gradually adjusting bedtime and wake-up times. It doesn't have to happen overnight. Moving bedtime a little earlier every few nights can make the transition less dramatic.

Morning routines can also help.

Children may benefit from knowing what comes next: wake up, get dressed, eat breakfast, brush teeth, grab the backpack and head out the door.

And don't forget the emotional side of school readiness.

Starting a new school year can bring excitement, nervousness, curiosity or even a little bit of everything at once.

Talking about school before the first day can help children know what to expect. Ask questions like, "What are you excited about?" or "Is there anything you're nervous about?"

For younger children, pretend play can be a fun way to practice new situations. You can play "school" at home, practice saying goodbye, or talk about what happens when it's time for lunch or recess.

Independence is another important skill.

Encouraging children to practice age-appropriate tasks—such as putting away belongings, opening lunch containers or choosing clothes—can help them feel more confident.

The goal isn't to make children perfectly prepared for every possible situation.

It's to help them feel secure, capable and ready to learn.

Because sometimes the most important school-supply item isn't in the backpack.

It's confidence.

LOCATION
421 Executive Court North
Fairfield, CA 94534-4019
(707) 863-3950

Monday, August 17, 2026

Getting Kids Ready for School Is About More Than Buying School Supplies


Back-to-school season often comes with a familiar checklist: notebooks, pencils, backpacks, lunch boxes, new shoes.

But there's another kind of preparation that doesn't fit neatly into a shopping cart.

Children also need time to adjust to new routines, expectations, schedules, and social environments.

Start Adjusting the Routine

Summer schedules can be wonderfully relaxed.

Bedtimes get later. Mornings move slower. Meals may happen whenever everyone remembers they're hungry.

Then school arrives.

Gradually adjusting bedtime and wake-up times before the first day can make the transition easier than going from summer mode to school mode overnight.

Practice Independence

Age-appropriate independence can help children feel more confident.

Depending on their age, that might mean practicing getting dressed, packing a backpack, organizing school materials, remembering personal belongings, or completing simple morning tasks.

The goal isn't perfection.

It's confidence.

Talk About the New School Year

Children may be excited about school—or nervous about it—or both.

Ask open-ended questions about what they're looking forward to and what concerns them.

For younger children, talking through what the school day might look like can make the unknown feel more familiar.

Don't Forget Social Development

School isn't only about reading, writing, and math.

Children are also learning how to communicate, cooperate, solve problems, manage emotions, make friends, and navigate relationships.

These skills matter in the classroom and far beyond it.

Make Room for Sleep, Play, and Downtime

A busy school schedule can quickly fill up.

Homework, sports, activities, appointments, and family responsibilities can leave children with very little unstructured time.

Play and downtime are important parts of childhood too.

The Goal Isn't a Perfect First Day

The first day might be wonderful.

Or there might be tears.

Or someone might forget their lunch.

Or the new shoes might suddenly become "the worst shoes ever."

That's okay.

Getting ready for school is less about creating a flawless first day and more about helping children develop the routines, confidence, independence, and emotional skills they need to navigate the year ahead.

LOCATION
421 Executive Court North
Fairfield, CA 94534-4019
(707) 863-3950

Thursday, August 13, 2026

How to manage your emotions


Explore the framework known as the Process Model, a psychological tool to help you identify, understand, and regulate your emotions.

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After a week of studying, you feel confident that you'll ace your exam. But when you get your grade back, it's much lower than you expected. You’re devastated, and the disappointment is hard to shake. Should you be trying to look on the bright side? And is controlling your emotions even possible? Explore techniques to help you identify, understand, and regulate your emotions.

Directed by Daniel Stankler.

LOCATION
421 Executive Court North
Fairfield, CA 94534-4019
(707) 863-3950

 

Monday, August 10, 2026

Understanding Developmental Milestones: Every Child Grows at Their Own Pace


Parents often hear about developmental milestones, but what do they really mean?

Developmental milestones are skills or behaviors that many children achieve within a general age range. They provide helpful guidance for tracking growth, but they're not a checklist that every child follows on exactly the same timeline.

Development Happens in Many Areas

Children grow in several important ways, including:

  • Physical development: learning to crawl, walk, run, jump, and use their hands for tasks like drawing or buttoning clothes.
  • Language development: understanding words, communicating needs, and building vocabulary.
  • Social and emotional development: forming relationships, expressing emotions, and learning empathy.
  • Cognitive development: thinking, remembering, solving problems, and exploring new ideas.

These areas often develop together, with progress in one area supporting growth in another.

Every Child Is Unique

It's completely normal for children to reach milestones at slightly different times. One child may begin talking earlier, while another may excel in physical activities first.

What's most important is that children continue making progress over time.

How Parents Can Support Healthy Development

You don't need elaborate activities to encourage learning. Simple, consistent interactions make a meaningful difference.

Some helpful ways to support development include:

  • Reading together every day.
  • Providing opportunities for active play.
  • Encouraging curiosity through questions and exploration.
  • Offering age-appropriate challenges.
  • Creating routines that include time for sleep, meals, play, and learning.

When Questions Arise

Parents know their children best. If you ever have questions about your child's development or notice changes that concern you, discussing them with your child's pediatrician or another qualified healthcare professional can provide guidance and reassurance.

Child development is a journey, not a race. Every new word, new skill, and new discovery is part of a remarkable process of learning and growing.

LOCATION
421 Executive Court North
Fairfield, CA 94534-4019
(707) 863-3950


Friday, August 7, 2026

Everyday Moments That Help Children Learn


Many parents wonder how they can support their child's development at home. The good news is that some of the most valuable learning opportunities happen during ordinary daily routines.

Simple interactions throughout the day can help children build language, confidence, independence, and curiosity.

Talk Throughout the Day

Children learn language by hearing it used in everyday conversations. Describe what you're doing while cooking, driving, shopping, or folding laundry. Ask questions, listen to their responses, and encourage back-and-forth conversation.

Even babies benefit from hearing adults speak, sing, and read aloud.

Read Together

Reading supports vocabulary, listening skills, imagination, and early literacy. Whether it's one book before bedtime or several throughout the day, shared reading creates meaningful learning opportunities and special family memories.

Don't worry if your child asks to hear the same story again and again—repetition helps reinforce learning.

Encourage Independence

Age-appropriate responsibilities, such as putting toys away, choosing clothes, or helping set the table, allow children to practice decision-making and develop confidence in their abilities.

Small accomplishments can have a big impact on self-esteem.

Ask Open-Ended Questions

Instead of questions that have only one correct answer, try asking:

  • "What do you think will happen next?"
  • "How did you build that?"
  • "Why do you think that happened?"

These conversations encourage children to think critically and express their ideas.

Celebrate Progress

Every child develops at their own pace. Recognizing effort, persistence, and improvement—rather than focusing only on outcomes—helps children develop a positive attitude toward learning.

The everyday moments you spend together often become the foundation for lifelong curiosity and confidence.

LOCATION
421 Executive Court North
Fairfield, CA 94534-4019
(707) 863-3950


Tuesday, August 4, 2026

The benefits of daydreaming - Elizabeth Cox


Enter the mind of a bored teenager to discover what happens in the brain when we daydream and find out what purpose it serves.

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On a daily basis, you spend between a third and half of your waking hours daydreaming. That may sound like a huge waste of time, but scientists think it must have some purpose, or humans wouldn’t have evolved to do so much of it. So, what exactly happens in the brain while you daydream? Elizabeth Cox takes a closer look at the science of daydreaming through the mind of a teenager.

Lesson by Elizabeth Cox, directed by Biljana Labović.

LOCATION
421 Executive Court North
Fairfield, CA 94534-4019
(707) 863-3950

 

Saturday, August 1, 2026

Why Play Is One of the Most Important Parts of Childhood


When children play, they're doing much more than having fun. Play is one of the primary ways young children learn about the world, develop new skills, and build confidence.

From stacking blocks to pretending to run a restaurant or building a blanket fort, every type of play supports healthy development in different ways.

Play Builds Problem-Solving Skills

Children naturally experiment while they play. They figure out how to balance blocks, solve puzzles, invent games, and overcome small challenges. These experiences encourage critical thinking and creativity.

Rather than providing every answer, allowing children to explore solutions on their own can help build resilience and confidence.

Imagination Supports Learning

Pretend play helps children practice communication, storytelling, and social interaction. Whether they're pretending to be doctors, teachers, astronauts, or chefs, they're learning how to express ideas and understand different perspectives.

Imaginative play also encourages language development as children create conversations and narratives.

Physical Play Strengthens Growing Bodies

Running, climbing, jumping, dancing, and playing outside all help develop coordination, balance, strength, and motor skills. Physical activity is also an important part of supporting overall health and well-being.

Social Skills Grow Through Play

Playing with siblings, classmates, or friends teaches children valuable life skills such as sharing, taking turns, cooperating, and resolving disagreements. These experiences help prepare children for school, extracurricular activities, and future relationships.

Play Doesn't Have to Be Complicated

Children don't need expensive toys to benefit from play. Cardboard boxes, building blocks, art supplies, books, outdoor adventures, and imaginative games often inspire just as much learning as high-tech gadgets.

By making time for play every day, parents and caregivers give children opportunities to grow emotionally, socially, physically, and intellectually—all while having fun.

LOCATION
421 Executive Court North
Fairfield, CA 94534-4019
(707) 863-3950


Wednesday, July 29, 2026

Play Together, Grow Together: How Shared Play Strengthens Families


In today's busy world, families often juggle work, school, activities, and endless to-do lists. Amid the hustle, one simple activity can make a meaningful difference: playing together.

Shared play creates opportunities for connection that go beyond entertainment. Whether it's building a blanket fort, playing a board game, kicking a ball in the backyard, or pretending to run a restaurant in the living room, these moments encourage laughter, communication, and trust.

When adults join children in play, they gain valuable insight into how children think, solve problems, and express emotions. Play offers a window into a child's interests, worries, and imagination, making it easier to understand their unique personality and developmental needs.

Children also benefit from having an engaged play partner. They often feel more confident trying new activities, practicing language, and working through challenges when a trusted adult is nearby to encourage rather than direct. Allowing children to lead the play helps foster independence, creativity, and decision-making skills.

The goal isn't to entertain children every minute or create picture-perfect activities. Even 15 to 20 minutes of uninterrupted, child-led play each day can strengthen relationships and create meaningful memories.

Play is more than a pastime—it's a powerful way to build connection, support healthy development, and remind children that they are seen, valued, and loved.

LOCATION
421 Executive Court North
Fairfield, CA 94534-4019
(707) 863-3950


Sunday, July 26, 2026

Grover Recognizes The Importance of Childhood Milestones | Parenting


Adults can support children's growth by remembering important milestones for learning and brain development. Grover explains how babies are not only adorable, but they're also learning and growing every day!

LOCATION
421 Executive Court North
Fairfield, CA 94534-4019
(707) 863-3950

 

Thursday, July 23, 2026

The Power of Connection: Why Relationships Matter in Early Childhood


Children thrive when they feel safe, loved, and connected to the people who care for them. Positive relationships with parents, caregivers, grandparents, teachers, and other trusted adults provide the foundation for healthy emotional, social, and cognitive development.

Connection begins with simple, everyday interactions. Smiling at a baby, responding to their cries, reading a favorite story, or listening attentively when a child shares an exciting discovery all communicate an important message: "You matter."

These consistent moments of responsiveness help children develop trust and confidence. When children know they can depend on caring adults, they're more likely to explore their environment, try new challenges, and recover from disappointments with resilience.

Connection also strengthens language development. Conversations during meals, walks, and playtime expose children to new vocabulary while encouraging communication skills. Asking open-ended questions and giving children time to respond helps build confidence in expressing their thoughts and feelings.

As children grow, strong relationships continue to shape their emotional well-being. Feeling understood and supported helps children develop empathy, self-regulation, and healthy ways of managing stress.

Building connection doesn't require perfection. Small, consistent moments of warmth, attention, and encouragement can have a lasting impact on a child's development and help create relationships that support lifelong learning and emotional health.

LOCATION
421 Executive Court North
Fairfield, CA 94534-4019
(707) 863-3950



Tuesday, July 21, 2026

Why Play Is Essential for Healthy Child Development


When children play, they're doing much more than having fun. Play is one of the most important ways young children learn about themselves, others, and the world around them. Whether they're building towers, pretending to be superheroes, or exploring nature, every playful moment helps support healthy development.

Through play, children develop critical thinking and problem-solving skills. They learn to experiment, make decisions, and adapt when things don't go as planned. Activities like puzzles, building blocks, and imaginative games encourage creativity while strengthening cognitive abilities.

Play also supports physical development. Running, climbing, jumping, and balancing help children build coordination, strength, and confidence in their bodies. Fine motor skills grow through activities such as drawing, stacking blocks, or working with play dough.

Perhaps most importantly, play nurtures social and emotional growth. Playing with siblings, friends, or caregivers teaches children how to share, cooperate, communicate, and manage emotions. They begin to understand empathy by taking turns, resolving conflicts, and imagining another person's perspective.

Parents and caregivers don't need expensive toys or elaborate activities to encourage meaningful play. Everyday moments—reading together, exploring outside, building with household items, or creating imaginary adventures—can provide valuable learning experiences that last a lifetime.

When adults protect time for play, they're giving children one of the greatest gifts they can receive: the opportunity to learn naturally through curiosity, creativity, and joyful exploration.

LOCATION
421 Executive Court North
Fairfield, CA 94534-4019
(707) 863-3950


Friday, July 17, 2026

Anger Management Techniques For Kids - Strategies To Calm Down When Your Temper Rises


Anger management coping skills for kids and teens.  Supports kids with 5 emotional regulation strategies to help manage anger.  

LOCATION
421 Executive Court North
Fairfield, CA 94534-4019
(707) 863-3950

 

Tuesday, July 14, 2026

Understanding Child Development: Why Every Child Grows at Their Own Pace

Watching a child grow is exciting, and it's natural for parents and caregivers to wonder whether developmental milestones are happening "on time." While milestones offer helpful guidelines, it's important to remember that every child develops at their own unique pace.

What Are Developmental Milestones?

Developmental milestones are skills that many children achieve within a general age range. These include physical abilities like walking, communication skills such as speaking first words, social interactions, emotional regulation, and problem-solving abilities.

Growth Isn't a Competition

Some children begin talking early but take longer to develop physical coordination. Others may become active climbers before they begin using full sentences. These differences are often a normal part of development and reflect each child's individual strengths and learning style.

Creating a Supportive Environment

Children thrive when they have opportunities to explore, ask questions, and feel safe. Reading together, talking throughout the day, providing time for creative play, and encouraging curiosity all contribute to healthy development.

When to Seek Guidance

While variation is expected, parents should speak with a pediatrician or qualified child development professional if they have ongoing concerns about their child's progress. Early evaluation and support can make a meaningful difference when developmental delays are present.

Celebrate Progress

Every new skill—from tying shoes to making a new friend—is worth celebrating. Focusing on steady growth instead of comparisons helps children build confidence and encourages a positive attitude toward learning.

Child development is a journey filled with unique milestones, discoveries, and achievements. By offering patience, encouragement, and opportunities to learn through everyday experiences, families can help children build the skills they need to thrive both now and in the future.

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421 Executive Court North
Fairfield, CA 94534-4019
(707) 863-3950

Saturday, July 11, 2026

How Everyday Play Supports Healthy Child Development

When people think about child development, they often picture classrooms, flashcards, or structured activities. While those experiences have their place, some of the most meaningful learning happens during play. From building with blocks to pretending to run a grocery store, play gives children opportunities to develop essential skills in a natural and enjoyable way.

Building Cognitive Skills

As children solve puzzles, stack blocks, or invent games, they practice problem-solving, critical thinking, and creativity. Play encourages them to ask questions, experiment with ideas, and discover how the world works.

Strengthening Social and Emotional Growth

Playing with others helps children learn important social skills such as sharing, taking turns, cooperating, and resolving conflicts. Imaginative play also allows children to express emotions, build empathy, and understand different perspectives.

Developing Physical Skills

Whether they're climbing at the playground, kicking a ball, or drawing with crayons, children are strengthening both gross and fine motor skills. These activities improve coordination, balance, and hand-eye control while promoting healthy physical development.

Encouraging Language Development

Conversations during play introduce children to new vocabulary and strengthen communication skills. Storytelling, role-playing, and singing all help build confidence in expressing thoughts and ideas.

Supporting Independent Learning

Play gives children the freedom to make choices, explore interests, and learn through trial and error. These experiences help build confidence, resilience, and a lifelong love of learning.

Parents and caregivers don't need expensive toys or perfectly planned activities to support development. Reading together, playing outdoors, building with everyday household items, or simply spending quality time together can provide valuable learning opportunities. When children are encouraged to play, they're also encouraged to grow.

LOCATION
421 Executive Court North
Fairfield, CA 94534-4019
(707) 863-3950

Wednesday, July 8, 2026

Elmo Loses His Laugh


Everyone remain calm, Elmo’s laugh is missing! Thankfully, if anyone could help Elmo find his lost laugh, it would be his Sesame Street friends. 

LOCATION
421 Executive Court North
Fairfield, CA 94534-4019
(707) 863-3950

 

Sunday, July 5, 2026

Building Your Parenting Support Team: Why You Don't Have to Do It Alone

Parenting is one of life's most rewarding adventures—but it can also be one of the most challenging.

There will be amazing days filled with laughter and milestones. There will also be days when you're juggling schedules, searching for missing shoes, and wondering if anyone else has ever had cereal for dinner.

(You're definitely not alone.)

Parenting Was Never Meant to Be a Solo Journey

For generations, families leaned on relatives, neighbors, teachers, and community members for support. While today's world looks different, one thing hasn't changed: children thrive when the adults around them are supported.

Having a network doesn't mean you have all the answers. It means you know where to turn when questions come up.

Your Support Team Can Include:

  • Family members
  • Friends and neighbors
  • Child care providers
  • Teachers
  • Pediatric healthcare providers
  • Parent groups
  • Community organizations

Every connection adds another layer of support for your family.

Asking for Help Is a Strength

Every parent has questions.

Is my child's behavior typical?
How do I find quality child care?
What community resources are available?
Who can I talk to if I'm feeling overwhelmed?

Reaching out for information or support is a proactive step that helps families stay informed and connected.

Community Resources Make a Difference

Many families are surprised to learn about the programs available in their community—from child care referrals and parenting education to developmental screenings and family engagement opportunities.

Knowing what's available can make navigating parenthood a little easier and help families access support when they need it most.

Strong Families Build Strong Communities

When families have access to reliable information, quality child care, and supportive relationships, children benefit. Communities become stronger, more connected, and better equipped to help every child reach their potential.

No parent has to know everything. What matters most is having trusted people and resources to lean on along the way.

Together, we can create a community where every family feels supported, every child has opportunities to grow, and no one has to navigate the parenting journey alone.

LOCATION
421 Executive Court North
Fairfield, CA 94534-4019
(707) 863-3950

Friday, July 3, 2026

Five Everyday Moments That Help Your Child Learn

When people think about helping children learn, they often picture classrooms, worksheets, or educational apps. But some of the most important learning happens during everyday moments at home.

The best part? You don't need special equipment or hours of extra time. Small interactions throughout the day help children build language, confidence, curiosity, and social skills.

Talk About Everyday Activities

Whether you're folding laundry, preparing dinner, or taking a walk, talk with your child about what you're doing.

Ask questions like:

  • "What color is this?"
  • "Can you count the apples?"
  • "What do you think will happen next?"

These conversations help develop vocabulary and encourage children to think, observe, and communicate.

Read Together Every Day

Reading doesn't have to be a bedtime-only activity. A few minutes with a favorite book after breakfast, before a nap, or while waiting for dinner can make a lasting impact.

Don't worry about reading every word exactly as written. Point to pictures, ask questions, and let your child tell part of the story. Making reading interactive helps build language and a lifelong love of books.

Let Play Lead the Way

Children learn through play. Building with blocks, pretending to run a grocery store, drawing with crayons, or exploring outside all help develop problem-solving, creativity, and social skills.

Sometimes the simplest toys spark the biggest imaginations.

Celebrate Effort

Learning isn't about getting everything right the first time. Praise your child's effort by saying things like:

  • "You worked really hard on that!"
  • "I like how you kept trying."
  • "You figured out a new way to solve the problem."

Encouragement helps children build confidence and resilience.

Remember: You Matter Most

Children don't need perfect parents—they need caring adults who spend time talking, listening, reading, and playing with them.

Every conversation, every story, and every shared laugh helps build a strong foundation for learning and healthy development.

At Solano Family & Children's Services, we're committed to connecting families with resources, programs, and support that help children thrive. Because sometimes the smallest everyday moments become the biggest milestones.

LOCATION
421 Executive Court North
Fairfield, CA 94534-4019
(707) 863-3950

Monday, June 29, 2026

Friday, June 26, 2026

It Takes a Village: Why Community Matters for Families


Parenting can be one of life's greatest joys—and one of its greatest challenges.

Some days feel effortless. Other days, finding matching socks feels like a major accomplishment.

That's why community matters.

For generations, families relied on neighbors, relatives, friends, and local organizations for support. Today, many parents feel pressure to do everything on their own. The reality is that families are stronger when they have connections.

A supportive community can help families:

Feel Less Isolated

Knowing that other parents face similar challenges can be incredibly reassuring. Sharing experiences often helps reduce stress and build confidence.

Access Helpful Resources

From child care information to developmental screenings and parenting support, community resources can help families find answers and navigate challenges.

Learn From One Another

Every family has unique experiences and strengths. When parents connect, they exchange ideas, encouragement, and practical solutions.

Build Stronger Futures for Children

Children benefit when the adults in their lives feel supported. Strong family networks contribute to healthier, more resilient communities.

One of the most valuable things parents can do is ask for help when they need it. Seeking support isn't a sign of weakness—it's a sign of strength and commitment to your family's well-being.

At Solano Family & Children's Services, we believe every family deserves access to resources, support, and opportunities that help children thrive. Together, we can create a community where families feel connected, informed, and empowered.

Because raising children isn't a journey anyone should have to walk alone.

It truly takes a village.

LOCATION
421 Executive Court North
Fairfield, CA 94534-4019
(707) 863-3950

Tuesday, June 23, 2026

What lack of sleep does to the teenage brain - Wendy Troxel


Dig into how sleep deprivation affects the teenage body and brain, and what can be done to help adolescents get enough sleep.

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Sleep deprivation among American teenagers is an epidemic. Only about 1 in 10 teens gets the 8 to 10 hours of sleep per night recommended by sleep scientists and pediatricians. So, what’s going on? And what changes can be made to address this issue? Wendy Troxel shares how early school start times and public policy are depriving adolescents of sleep at a time when they need it most.

Directed by Laura Jayne Hodkin.

LOCATION
421 Executive Court North
Fairfield, CA 94534-4019
(707) 863-3950



 

Sunday, June 21, 2026

Happy Father's Day


Happy Father's Day

LOCATION
421 Executive Court North
Fairfield, CA 94534-4019
(707) 863-3950

Wednesday, June 17, 2026

Why Play Is Serious Business for Young Children


When adults see children building blanket forts, pretending to be astronauts, or turning a cardboard box into a race car, it may look like they're "just playing."

But children are actually doing some of their most important work.

Play helps children develop critical skills that support learning, relationships, and emotional well-being. Through play, children learn how to solve problems, communicate ideas, manage emotions, and explore the world around them.

Here are a few surprising benefits of play:

Play Builds Brain Power

When children imagine, create, and experiment, their brains are making connections that support future learning. A tower made of blocks today can help develop problem-solving skills for tomorrow.

Play Strengthens Social Skills

Whether children are sharing toys, taking turns, or negotiating the rules of a game, they're learning valuable relationship skills that will serve them throughout life.

Play Supports Emotional Growth

Pretend play allows children to process experiences, express feelings, and build confidence in a safe environment.

The Best Toys Aren't Always the Most Expensive

Children often find joy in simple items such as cardboard boxes, art supplies, books, blankets, and outdoor spaces. What matters most is the opportunity to explore and create.

Parents and caregivers can encourage learning through play by asking open-ended questions:

  • "What do you think will happen next?"
  • "How did you build that?"
  • "Can you tell me about your drawing?"

These conversations help children develop language skills and confidence while keeping play fun.

The next time you see a child pretending the living room is a pirate ship, remember: they're not wasting time.

They're building skills for life.

LOCATION
421 Executive Court North
Fairfield, CA 94534-4019
(707) 863-3950

Monday, June 15, 2026

The Secret Superpower Every Parent Already Has


Parenting doesn't come with an instruction manual. If it did, it would probably be 10,000 pages long, written in tiny print, and immediately covered in applesauce.

The good news? You already have one of the most important tools your child needs: your relationship with them.

Research consistently shows that children thrive when they have caring, responsive adults in their lives. Simple daily interactions—reading a book together, talking during dinner, playing a game, or listening to a child's story about their day—help build the foundation for healthy development.

Many parents feel pressure to be perfect. Social media can make it seem like everyone else has endless patience, spotless homes, and children who happily eat vegetables. Real life looks a little different.

Children don't need perfect parents. They need connected parents.

Here are three simple ways to strengthen your connection:

1. Create "Micro-Moments" of Attention

You don't always need hours of quality time. Even five focused minutes can make a difference. Put away your phone, make eye contact, and follow your child's lead during play or conversation.

2. Celebrate Small Wins

Did your child put away their shoes without being asked? Share a toy? Try a new food? Celebrate it. Positive attention encourages positive behavior.

3. Build a Support Team

Parenting was never meant to be a solo mission. Friends, family members, teachers, child care providers, and community organizations can all play a role in helping families thrive.

At Solano Family & Children's Services, we believe strong families build strong communities. Every conversation, every encouraging word, and every shared moment helps children grow with confidence.

So if today feels messy, remember: the little moments matter more than perfection ever will.

And yes, the applesauce can wait.

LOCATION
421 Executive Court North
Fairfield, CA 94534-4019
(707) 863-3950

Thursday, June 11, 2026

How stress affects your body - Sharon Horesh Bergquist


Our hard-wired stress response is designed to gives us the quick burst of heightened alertness and energy needed to perform our best. But stress isn’t all good. When activated too long or too often, stress can damage virtually every part of our body. Sharon Horesh Bergquist gives us a look at what goes on inside our body when we are chronically stressed.

Lesson by Sharon Horesh Bergquist, animation by Adriatic Animation.

LOCATION
421 Executive Court North
Fairfield, CA 94534-4019
(707) 863-3950

Monday, June 8, 2026

Learning Happens Everywhere


Did you know children learn through everyday experiences? Reading a story, helping set the table, or talking about their day all help build important skills.

These simple moments support language development, confidence, and family connections. The best part? Learning doesn't require a classroom—it can happen anytime, anywhere.

Small moments today help build bright futures tomorrow.

LOCATION
421 Executive Court North
Fairfield, CA 94534-4019
(707) 863-3950

Friday, June 5, 2026

Small Moments Matter


Did you know that some of a child's biggest learning moments happen during everyday activities? Reading a bedtime story, sharing a meal, or taking a walk together can help build confidence, communication skills, and strong family connections.

The little moments may seem small, but they play a big role in helping children grow, learn, and thrive.

LOCATION
421 Executive Court North
Fairfield, CA 94534-4019
(707) 863-3950